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4 Critical Skills for Singles
By David Steele
To
be successful in meeting the love of your life, you most likely will need to
meet a lot of prospective partners. This can be a daunting challenge and tempt
you to settle for less than what you really want because:
* Dating takes a lot of time, effort, and expense
* You may want a partner NOW
* You may be shy or have low self-esteem
* You may fear you won't be able to find what you really
want
But, when you settle for less, you get less. And if you settle
for a relationship that is less than what you really want, the relationship is
doomed from the start.
If you are serious about finding your Life Partner, you must
first be absolutely clear about who you are and what you want. In our
RELATIONSHIP SUCCESS TRAINING FOR SINGLES PROGRAM, you develop your
Vision for your life and relationship, clarify your Life Purpose,
determine your Requirements, Needs, and Wants, and design your
Relationship Plan for mapping out how you will "find the love of your life
and the life that you love." In this program, in addition to many other powerful
and innovative tools, we teach you the following:
4 Critical Skills For Your Life Partner Quest:
1.
Scouting;
the process of finding people to meet. A
successful single scouts in high quality, closely aligned "Attraction Venues"
and has an effective network/support system scouting for them as well.
2.
Sorting;
the process of quickly determining if
someone you meet has future potential. A successful single is able to initiate
contact with people and in conversation get enough information within 5 minutes
to know whether they want to get to know them better or move on. Think of
"working the room" at a party.
3.
Screening;
the process of getting enough
information to determine if a prospective partner meets your Requirements or
not. Since Requirements are relationship breakers, all of them must be met.
Getting this information can occur over the telephone, by e-mail, over coffee,
or taking a walk. If you are looking for your Life Partner, you can't afford to
explore dead ends, and it is important to get this information BEFORE you date
them and get involved.
4.
Testing; the process of verifying the information you collected during
screening, gaining KNOWLEDGE and EXPERIENCE that your requirements are met and
the relationship works for you before you become exclusive and consider being a
pre-committed couple. This process can take from 2 weeks to 6 months or more.
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